Been thinking about love lately.Love is a beautiful thing if it is reciprocated love.
Can't call myself an expert on all things Love since I have been in one serious relationship since I was 19 years old and still at it at 23, still going strong.
Everything else i had before then was inconsequential..didn't feel like it then but it was majorly major crushes on anyone deemed handsome. Back in my high school days, i had this major crush on Pilipili, always thought we were soul mates...the eyes..let me not even talk about that. Then followed major crushes on Craig David, Marcus Houston and Omarion...I always had the idea that if these guys came to Kenya for a concert( which i would obviously attend and have a front row seat) the minute any of them would spot me in the crowd, they would realize that God had sent them here to meet the African beauty made for them..hehe! they still haven't come yet and the crush has worn off....until i watch another video of them.
Anyway, am happy where am at right now. This is the 5th year and everything is still as awesome if not even better. Of course it hasn't been without hitches, a couple of break-ups here and there, doubts here and there, a couple of tears and stormy days , but at the end of it all. it prevailed.
Let's call him Mr K. He is a great guy( not biased, wouldn't have stuck through 5 years if he wasn't), sensitive, caring, interesting, intelligent( a major deal for me) and has a sense of humor. I can positively say he can handle me.....not an easy feat i promise you. I am stubborn and strong headed( been told loadsa times) but he manages to quell them....And did i mention that he is the brutally honest sort...That can be wonderful and highly infuriating at times.Wonderful when compliments are being paid coz i know they are totally honest( what girl doesn't appreciate compliments?) and frustrating when he's pointing out that my hair doesn't look great or that am acting like a baby...Well, but i know him well enough not to listen when he thinks that my shoes are ugly- anything ultra chic doesn't make much sense to him lol!
Now why have i been thinking about Love a lot lately? Well, am about to embark on a long distance relationship. Never had that before so i have to admit it is a scary prospect,especially now that lot's of changes are happening in my life...He's going away for a while and i will miss him like crazy. Maybe it's not a bad thing, maybe it is a time to grow stronger as individuals, and become better persons to make a stronger team together. After all, they say that Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
On another note...here is my siz, people say we look a lot alike, i don't know about that but i know that she is awesome.
